TruthfulMe Happiness & Self- Kindness
Simple Heart Coaching--
Listening, Empathy and True - Heart Sharing
Listening, Empathy and True - Heart Sharing
This is my simplest, least expensive coaching and offers a great experience and great growth. Its especially good for those who are sensitive to being "told what to do."
Simple Coaching -- at its Best!
Studies are now finding that the process or type of coaching or therapy used may not be as important to outcomes as are specific behaviors of the coach or counselor, such as listening, confidence, and belief in the client’s innate wisdom and ability to change. Although there is nothing that can guarantee progress, clients are more likely to achieve their goals when a good and positive relationship exists between them and their coach. In essence the interactions with the client are a powerful tool in the helping relationship.
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Simple Heart is based on the model of Active Listening and Attitudinal Healing, also known by other names. It provides for simple, effective and affordable coaching. It begins with the simple listening connection, that brings forth something bigger than both coach and client. It is an organic process that trusts that we all have our own best answers inside ourselves. Intelligent listening, intuitive questions and shared experience help bring them to light. You too will come to trust in it, and the emergent bulb or flower that springs forth is often a surprising and inviting gift.
Do More in Less Time
I can help set you up for success in record time when you prepare yourself in advance with a bit of quiet reflection time. I may suggest directions for your meditations. When our sessions are pre- planned and prepared for in this way, we both get to shine!
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Do More in Less Time
I can help set you up for success in record time when you prepare yourself in advance with a bit of quiet reflection time. I may suggest directions for your meditations. When our sessions are pre- planned and prepared for in this way, we both get to shine!
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Some of the benefits of
Simple Heart Coaching include the following:
> Listening, Attending, Hearing and Observing - This lets the client know that they have full, undivided, caring attention. That alone is healing. Those who wish may also learn these skills through our sessions, including capturing and understanding verbal and nonverbal information communicated.
> Shared Experience vs. Advice -- Many of my clients have been resistant or adverse to advice unless given in very non- invasive ways. Some advice can come from a superior place or perspective and can be intrusive, such as in trying to "fix" the person. What's broken? We are all where we are for a reason. Being heard, understood and given room to be ourselves facilitates change.
Simple Heart Listening shares experience and demonstrates healing, with the caveat of respecting the speaker's own ability to sift through what's been presented for his or her own truth. This may involve experimentation and diversion while respecting your ability and right to choose and find your own best answers in whatever way meets your needs.
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Simple Heart Coaching include the following:
> Listening, Attending, Hearing and Observing - This lets the client know that they have full, undivided, caring attention. That alone is healing. Those who wish may also learn these skills through our sessions, including capturing and understanding verbal and nonverbal information communicated.
> Shared Experience vs. Advice -- Many of my clients have been resistant or adverse to advice unless given in very non- invasive ways. Some advice can come from a superior place or perspective and can be intrusive, such as in trying to "fix" the person. What's broken? We are all where we are for a reason. Being heard, understood and given room to be ourselves facilitates change.
Simple Heart Listening shares experience and demonstrates healing, with the caveat of respecting the speaker's own ability to sift through what's been presented for his or her own truth. This may involve experimentation and diversion while respecting your ability and right to choose and find your own best answers in whatever way meets your needs.
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Other important factors in your Simple Heart Coaching include: |
Empathy is vital in the caring, coaching relationship. It is the ability to perceive another's experience and communicate that, which helps to clarify and amplify that person's own experience and meaning. Ideally, empathy may include expressions of attending, hearing, caring, paraphrasing content of client communications,as well as reflecting feelings and implicit messages in an accepting and supportive way. For example, the coach may ask a question such as, “It sounds like...,” or “Let me see if I understand this,” which allows the client to agree or disagree with the accuracy of his or her understanding of what has been said.
The best coach reflects in an open-ended, respectful manner in regards to what the client is communicating verbally and non-verbally.
Genuineness is the ability of a coach/counselor to be freely themselves and unpretentiously so. The client will know and be affected by the presence or lack of consistency between the words, behaviors and inner feelings conveyed, and the coach's expressions of humanity and non-defensiveness, eschewing false roles is vital. What's more authenticity is a major component o happiness. and it is vital to have a role model in that.
Unconditional positive regard towards the client must be genuine, an expression of caring and nurturance as well as acceptance. It includes respect – the ability to communicate the coach/counselor's sincere belief that every person possesses the inherent strength and capacity to make it in life, and that each person has the right to choose his own alternatives and make his own decisions.
Counselor /Coach Self-Disclosure:
A coach’s sharing of their own experience, as appropriate, brings coach and client closer, increasing trust and effective modelling. It can give the client a greater vision of their own possibilities and breaks down the myth of separation between the “student” and “teacher”. The truth is, we are all students and teachers to each other, and to set one person unnaturally above another can be destructive of self- esteem and spiritual connection.
A final factor in our coaching involves concreteness and direction in goals as well as in our conversation. Next page: Simple Coach-- more about Simple Coaching Counsel
Fees for this program are listed near the bottom of my Affordability Page.
A coach’s sharing of their own experience, as appropriate, brings coach and client closer, increasing trust and effective modelling. It can give the client a greater vision of their own possibilities and breaks down the myth of separation between the “student” and “teacher”. The truth is, we are all students and teachers to each other, and to set one person unnaturally above another can be destructive of self- esteem and spiritual connection.
A final factor in our coaching involves concreteness and direction in goals as well as in our conversation. Next page: Simple Coach-- more about Simple Coaching Counsel
Fees for this program are listed near the bottom of my Affordability Page.
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Privacy Guarantee-- Your contact info will never be shared.
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The Inner Listening includes:
• CONTENT is what is specifically said as well as the words, expressions and patterns used which may give deeper insight. The best counselors have developed ability to remember what was said, as well as to clarify that and/or find out what was not said.
• PROCESS includes nonverbal phenomena as well as how content is conveyed, themes, body language, emotional content and expressions, interactions, etc.
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